First of all, CONGRATULATIONS!!!
You are engaged.
This is one
of the most exciting (and probably most stressful) times of your life.
We understand – weddings are complicated and expensive. There are a LOT
of decisions to be made in what seems like too little time. Everywhere
you look, there seem to be many sources for great information to many
of the questions you have and even to questions you didn’t know you
had. Anyone and everyone seems to have advice to offer, and it is easy to get
overwhelmed.
∙ There are color schemes to choose…
∙ You have to decide on who is in your wedding party…
∙ You need to be thinking about the menu and catering…
∙ There are important details to remember like getting your wedding license…
∙ You need to ask your officiant to perform the ceremony…
∙ You need to choose a PHOTOGRAPHER…
∙ and the list goes on and on….
We
here at Land of Wild Designs Photography understand that this is a
large task and you need help sometimes! You need do what is best for
you, but we always suggest to plan this out, it is possible to have the
wedding of your dreams. It really is!
This is how we go about it:
Figure out your budget – put it on paper – talk about it – AGREE and stick to it … (revisit it often)
Prioritize
- Cost
- Value
This is a challenge folks, because ‘Cost’ and ‘Value’ really are different.
What
does it cost? Well, that will fit into the financial portion of your
budget easily enough, but there is so much more to consider.
What is
the VALUE? That is the question that stays with you for a while. You
may spend money and recover any financial losses, but the value – well,
that is something that means something to you emotionally and it is
typically something that stays with you long after the financial part is
forgotten. It is okay to use emotion when making these plans, by all
means – it is your love that brought you together, your friendship that
makes you want to spend the rest of your lives together. So how about
planning the value and cost together – then prioritize and see where you
are.
We suggest writing everything down with three columns following
– value first and cost second – then in the third column, add your
notes. Now that you have everything (or most everything, because we
know this list changes frequently) start thinking/talking about what
priority to place these items in – here is an example:
This is the way we see it…the longer it will last, the higher the priority
needs to be. Let me explain. Hair and makeup will be gone the day of the wedding (or
the next day), but the way they made you feel - made you look -
the memory
will last far beyond that day. The venue is only something that you have for
the day usually, but the dream of having a wedding there - the way it
makes your wedding come together – the memories will last far beyond.
The Photographer will be gone after the last planned event at the
reception in most instances, we are only going to be with you for the
day, but the way we made you feel – the attention we paid to your
desires will last beyond that day - - - and the memories –
the
photographs will be with you for long after your wedding day.
We
don’t want to assume the priority you are placing on any one thing on
your list – everyone is different of course and that is wonderful. But
if Photography is a higher priority for you, please consider Land of
Wild Designs Photography. We would love to talk to you and see if we are what you
are looking for in a wedding photographer.
When we book a
photography session, these are some of the little things that we ask of
you – it isn’t too much, and it doesn’t seem important sometimes, but to
us – it is
very important!
We want to meet with you a couple
times before the wedding – (in person would be great), but we can also do
it through phone conversations, emails, messaging, etc.
Here are some of the things you may want to consider…
-
to be sure to send us a wedding invitation if we are photographing your wedding. This is a big one folks! (When you schedule with us, we will make sure you have our mailing address)
- tell us what time and where you will be getting ready if you would like the ‘getting ready’ images included
- and
please understand that we care about your images, we don’t rush wedding
photography or the editing of your images, for this reason there may
take some time
(up to 2 months or so) to get your wedding photo
portfolio. We will send you (or post to social media if you like) some
previews, but the full portfolio will come to you customized after it is
final. These are your tangible FOREVER memories and we want to do our
best to get them right!
Fun talk!
Thanks for listening ;)
Becca